How to Tell your Friends and Family That You're Moving
In some ways, telling close friends you're moving out is harder than telling your folks. It's expected that kids move to their own place from their parents' home. However, friends might not see it coming. It's a reality that you can stay in touch with people very easily now with technology. But it's not the same as seeing them in person, especially if you have been really close friends for a long time. The farther away the move, the harder it might be to make the moving announcement.
Tips for Announcing Your Move
The following are some moving tips to soften the blow of your big move announcement.
- Tell people as soon as possible. It's tempting to just post your news on Facebook or other social media, but you should tell people individually and in person. No one will want to hear about it after the fact. They might think you don't care enough about them to tell them personally. Be sure and talk up the move with excitement so they see how happy you are. Yet you'll also need to talk about how sad you are to think about missing them. Vow to stay in touch and visit as often as possible.
- Send moving announcements. This works for people with whom you aren't as close. It's also a good way to remind close friends and family of your new address. With all the hectic moving chores, it's tempting to send out some e-cards. But make it more special by purchasing some fun moving announcement cards. With so many styles of cards available, pick a design that best fits your personality. It will be so "you!"
- Throw a party. Have a moving out/going-away party. Tell people that even though they may be tripping over boxes, you still want to see them before you leave. Make it easy on yourself by serving pizza or other simple food. You may be in pre-move, stressed-out mode, but seeing all your friends and family will give you a chance to relax and say goodbye.
- Throw yourself a housewarming party. This might not make sense if you're moving across country from family or friends. But with enough notice, a group of folks could drive to see you in your new place.
- Send pix. As soon as your new place looks less like a disaster area, take some photos and send them to family and friends. Visualizing your place is one thing, but not as cool as showing them how it really looks.




